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I believe I had the same issue - that when I would sample the kit in EZ Drummer by clicking with my mouse - I got the full 127 "slam" on each kit piece.

I am now using a set of Roland TD-4KX to trigger Superior (which behaves similar to EZ) and I usually put my Massey limiter plugin (a great, transparent limiter) as an Insert after Superior Drummer and dial in some additional dbs to get the sound out the "same" into my mix while tracking.

Doing this - the kit sounds just as big as when I'm tapping with the mouse.