Server-to-server relay questions!

[StefanLindstedt]

So we're currently setting up our new Digidelivery and we want to use the server-to-server relay function. The thing is we can't find any information on weather all deliveries will be relayed or if we'll be asked to decide if we want it relayed or just uploaded on our own Digidelivery.
This is of great importance to us that we can make this decision in every case of delivery without having to connect via www.digidelivery.net to shut it off/turn it on every time.
Is there any one who knows how this works?
/stefan

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