[junkgear]

When a file is grayed out in MacOS, it means it is not accessible, which would explain why Xpand would not see it.

I'm not sure why this would happen since the installer takes care of placing the files.
Things you can try are making sure you are an admin on the logged in account when installing. Deleting the file manually then try installing again.

If the file is not corrupt, there are ways of making the file active from the terminal window. It's probably best to search for a Mac article to help you with that though.