Are you using the Master Assistant feature? If not, give it a try(the Streaming option might be exactly the place to start). Also, maybe have a song or two done at a dedicated mastering house and use that(those) as a benchmark for your own mastering of the rest of the project(Ozone has a great feature of allowing you to import tracks for A>B comparison). I used that feature and my comp tune was off the last Toto CD and it was LOUD!!! It took some fussing, but I was able to push my own masters close enough. I hope the days of slammed masters are behind us, but be thoughtful in what commercial tunes you compare to(don't use the last Nickelback CD
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